SNOWBLIND?

JUNGLE FEVER-whites dating mostly blacks, or others ethnics
SNOW BLIND- blacks who date mostly whites
RICE QUEENS-those whites who date mostly asians
ex co worker LIPS IS LIPS AND HIPS IS HIPS!

aloha,
THE HANGOVER 2
it was brought to my attention yesterday by Nurse ESTER (who indeed just bought THE HANGOVER DVD that BRADLEY COOPER IS EXTREMELY CUTE!)and that my almost 20 years in the hotel/hospitality industry may have soured my view of hotel related comedies...INDEED.Point taken.


MINISTRY OF TRUTH TIME HERE

look up LOVE MAPS anywhere,
the concept of who and how we love is set somewhere before puberty.

like every male in the 50s i looked at PLAYBOY , not for the boring articles but for the nudity and scalding cartoons, i often wondered how they got white wimmin to do that. in school i got some pictures of nude black wimmin, not as easy to get in the 50s (plus i saw my Mother,nabes and cousins nude or half nude quite often) and then there were the booklet sized newsprint zines like STATE,WINK,GAZE etc with BETTY PAGE ERA photography.pretty much the usual stuff, nothing extraordinary.

i may have mentioned my college educated handsome cousin JESSE who had sex with white wimmin in Greenwich Village until they got their desired & denied car or european vacation, whatever they were extorting from Daddy before they dumped him. Jesse was regarded as a tragic angry figure, not to be a role model. okay, i was black and i liked black girls altho my first crush was on a long haired girl in first grade to which my Mother replies YOU CAN'T LIKE HER, SHE'S PUERTO RICAN! like that matters? SIGH.

so i blame MENSA,yes Mensa.
or i could just as easily blame JOY and waking up naked next to her in my bed, live and in the warm bare flesh.
anyway back to MENSA, by now you've recognized what a SMARTASS i am, i know it too...when a teen i applied for MENSA and Passed then did nothing.typical me sometimes, so years later when in LA @1968 i applied again, they held tests at UCLA so i got a test date..unfortunately ,and MENSA was REALLY BORING in those days, i was up all nite doing drink and drugs the previous 10 hours and stumbled sleepless to the test...which i failed by a point or two.i was getting a social life of sorts then, i was a CLEAN HIPPIE (bathed & had a job and rental) one of the few black ones.

HAL i think his name was, was a private investigator living in the poor part of Beverly Hills (yes there is one, right on the edge of hollywood) who started ALPHA a party group for the big brained. i still have no idea how he got my test scores or address but he did and i went to his parties. BENT BETTY or whatever i called her in the past was there and i sat and found myself looking up her skirt unintentionally (white cotton panties),so i moved and she moved and the view was the same..OK? so she called and we eventually went out, platonicaly.( see prior blog)

now i had dated,cruised and even gotten a lapdance, her idea but still fun, from black wimmin in the south and TEXass but black peeps are wary of other black peeps ACTING SEDDITY (???) and TALKING WHITE.which is how i talk, as i splained NOT MY FAULT.so anyway i was happy with chocolate wimmin except for their lack of a decent {IMHO} education. the deal breaker was usually something like WHY DO YOU HAVE SO MANY BOOKS? HUGE HUGE SIGH.

so even tho i am A SMARTASS & GROUCH some peeps like me, as i have detailed several white wimmin have liked me well enuff to take their clothes off and....part of the problem, aside from my sarcasm and dark caustic humor, is that i rarely lived in DA 'HOOD or Barrio. i usually lived where i could afford it- SRO Hotels nears public transit.not many black wimmin there, not the type i'd date anyway.

back in the 1970s when i put of personals ads, (avoid the weirdos if u can), i got ONLY white wimmin responding-to me in a tiny SRO room).so i responded to the drought in chocolate by responding as any red blooded american male would, i took what was willing...unless like KIM they were pulling a JESSE on me, then i declined (see KRISTAkI).

BTW
one woman, who was FREEZING COLD LIKE A CORPSE even in mid july and wore a wolf haired parka and furry boots when we went walking. screwed ever man whose ad she answered then married one of them.some prior male had CONVINCED HER THAT SHE COULD ONLY ATTAIN ONE ORGASM, ONE & DONE.she was so sad to be around, no condoms allowed either...)

so i am NOT preying on one particular shade or type of female(okay okay leggy & small breasted), i just go with the flow and what falls into my lap...MY EX-THE MIRAGE, the first or second time we had sex(protection is NOT 100% foolproof), after being JUST FRIENDS for over a year,announced resolutely that she was Pregnant, and she was. both our biological clocks were ticking (yes, mine too) and we SEEMED to get along across most values so we got married and it worked until it didn't anymore-FOLIE A DUEX.having her parents hate you seems to be part of the package -RACISM IS ALIVE & UNWELL IN MODERN DAY "POST RACIAL" AMERICA! sigh & cry...

what else...i am not some swarthy Lothario or OTHELLO but I LIKE WIMMIN & I LIKE LISTENING TO THEM...that is the sum of my "TECHNIQUE".did i tell you about JoAnn? maybe another time..i've had a HARD MAY and everything on and in me HURTS plus i need STILL MORE TESTS ,more to come on that later too.

BTW2 today i found it Harder Than Ever to walk even a short distance to some meeting ,maybe more tests will explain it,probably not. SIGH.

seems like my train of thot has gotten derailed,so...

MINISTRY OF SOMETHING OR OTHER
namaste y'all
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