Monday, January 26, 2009

Y ME?

WHY ME?
THE NEW NORMAL 2

Sometimes i hear the Why Me? whine from newbies and sometimes,but rarely, i hear it from old hands.
on my nastier Hvy Pain days i want to retort WHY NOT YOU?
being crip doesn't make you 'everyone wins a ribbon'special.
like Gays we are fighting for EQUAL RIGHTS not SPECIAL RIGHTS.
so let me say this again, the Kubler Ross 5 Stages of Grief (Wikipedia et al)

1.DENIAL i feel fine.
2.ANGER why me? it's not fair. (listen up DEATH IS FAIR,EVERYBODY GETS TO PLAY.)
3.BARGAINING i'll be good God just let me.... again!
4.DEPRESION i'm SAD, i give up.(this one is so good sometimes it never goes away.)
5.ACCEPTANCE i.e. THE NEW NORMAL
that all clear now?

in other news,
yes i have been remiss in adding the Tagboard feature.mea culpa.
adjusting to a new symptom of increasingly intense hand tremors.
permanent or transient,too soon to tell.
HEALING IS A FULL TIME JOB.
namaste
mega

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